Thai Girls
Indeed, most farang males who work in offices take little interest in co-workers, and spend much more time at pubs with their friends and developing mutual flash-in-the-pan relationships with the outgoing and skilled Thai ladies of entertainment venues, because there are so many lovely ladies among them who are easy to chat up, outgoing and willing to move into a sexual liaison in very short time when an opportunity comes within range, especially if the man fits certain criteria such as being dressed as if they have money, clean, cheerful and easygoing.
Do not treat your coworkers or employees as if they are similar to bargirls. Just like in your own country, Thailand has different kinds of people in different walks of life.
The prostitutes are far more willing with sex, quickly, so you don’t waste much time getting them there, they don’t give you problems when you’ve had enough of them and pay them off (quite unlike a normal lady), and there are a variety of other lovely beauties out there for your next adventure.
For what you pay per night, it’s pretty cheap when compared to the real costs (both time and money) on an alternative, serious relationship, and you avoid the emotional pitfalls of something more serious. Even if you keep a prostitute for a few days or weeks and enter a grey area relationship, she’ll usually be out of your way with her next distraction — another farang man in her normal environment…
For those who want a “good” Thai girlfriend, I can advise you about this, but before doing so you’d better think about whether this is really what you want in the long run. “Be careful what you wish for, because you might just get it!”
Once you get a good Thai lady serious about you, especially after physical intimacy, if you change your mind then they will usually be a lot more difficult to break with than a Western lady. They are not like prostitutes who are already accustomed to this (but who may yell and scream for a few minutes nevertheless, but still leave after you pay them off). You cannot pay off most mainstream Thai ladies. They wouldn’t accept it, and they won’t give up easily. It may be more traumatic to the average Thai lady than the typical foreign woman.
Relationships consume a lot of time. Businessmen and independent guys often just don’t have the time, or don’t want the entanglements. For these guys, the occasional weekend outing in the bars and music is a time & cost efficient release.
On the other hand, a good reason to not go with prostitutes is because of sexually transmitted diseases. I just have a feeling of revulsion of “going where so many men have been before” (the antithesis of the Star Trek theme). In fact, going where so many whoremongers have been before, and who knows where those whoremongers have been before they had sex with the particular lady of interest to you!
They may be infested with viruses and various kinds of bacteria, only a few of which are symtomatic at first. Be realistic and keep condoms handy. Condoms don’t protect you against everything (e.g., herpes, or genital warts, or molluscum, all of which are extremely common here), but they protect you against the worst things (HIV, syphilis, gonorrhea, NSU).
There are some very pleasant and lovely bargirls and freelance prostitutes out there. However, most are hard core. That environment in general can be irritating, as there are just too many loud, hardened and insensitive prostitutes all around — crude with low intellectual class and a “don’t give a sh*t” attitude. Mercenary commercial. In cruising with friends, I can go a whole night without seeing anything I’d take, even if they were paying me!
