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When it comes to tantalizing someone else, a sexy striptease is a surefire winner. Not only is it incredibly erotic, but it can also be a great thing to do for foreplay.

Of course, the key is that it’s strip TEASE, so keep that in mind as we talk about what you need to do—men and women both.

Getting Ready

When you’re thinking about doing a little ‘show,’ you want to consider what you are wearing from the inside out. What you’re going to end up in after the rest of the outfit is removed is the key.

Pick out something that the other person is sure to like. Maybe they’re shared a fantasy with you. Keep that in mind.

On top of that, you will want to find a nice ‘costume’ to wear. Maybe you’re starting out as a cop or a meter maid. Whatever you choose, be sure to accessorize it and ‘sex’ it up a little. Wear thigh high stocking and a garter belt if you’d like.

Guys can just wear something tight and figure flattering. And find something other than your everyday undies. G-strings aren’t necessary, but something a little tighter is delicious.

Pick out music that you know will be enjoyed—or find something from an erotic movie with a good tempo.

Doing The Dance

Since you’re aiming to please, figure out what will please the audience ahead of time. But if you can’t do that, listening to the reactions during the tease will help you move to the right beat.

Turn on the music and move your body. Move your hips and your legs. You can choose to keep your eyes focused on the ‘customer’ or you can close your eyes and drift into your own world.

You don’t have to be a professional dancer to be good. The fun is in the stripping itself.

You can either stay away from the person, or begin to rub on them like a lap dance. Tantalize them as long as they can stand it.

Stripping 101

When it comes to the actual stripping, you need to do more than just take off your clothes. This is all about drama and teasing.

Slowly remove each article of clothing. The more you have on, the better, because then the dance can last for a while. However, you don’t want to have so much on that you’re boring your audience.

Take off insignificant pieces of the costume first—gloves, hats, etc.—or remove them between other, more substantial items—shirts and pants.

You can slowly remove a belt and unzip a zipper for a great effect.

Dancing in your lingerie or well-chosen underwear will be the climax.

And what about when you’ve run out of clothing?

Perhaps you can ask the ‘audience’ if they want the special show. Slowly remove the rest of your covering and stop the music.

Another show starts now. Of course, that’s assuming that the audience could even make it until then. A lot of ‘strippers’ get their clothes ripped off ahead of schedule.

I like to think of foreplay as a delicious appetizer and a way to get things rolling. Now, there are plenty of ways to move this along, so let’s start with some ideas and you can be creative from there.

As we’ve talked about before, some of the best foreplay is in the setting itself, so make sure that there are candles lit, and every arrangement has been made for an interrupted evening of bliss.

Feeding The Fire

One of the ways to get the night started is to feed each other. While eating isn’t always the sexiest thing, being served can be.

If you’re two couples, you can reverse roles. The women can feed the men, or vice versa. Do this slowly so that you can look into each other’s eyes. Try to signal your intentions for the evening, and let the other know how excited you already are.

Chocolate dipped strawberries are a decadent treat.

You can also offer each other drinks or other light snacks. Food has a way of calming us and getting us ready for deeper contact.

You can also put the morsel of food in your mouth and offer it to someone else, but they have to take it without using their hands. Delicious.

Turning On The Evening

While I don’t suggest this for anyone that hasn’t already propositioned it, watching a sexy movie can be a great way to introduce a sexy mood.

Find one that appeals to everyone and something that isn’t too corny so that you’re laughing more than you’re becoming aroused. You may want to make suggestions among yourselves and then pick a few in case they don’t end up working out.

Dim the lights and watch the action. Perhaps you’ll want to copy the actors as you watch. Let the darkness cover any nervousness.

Starting With Your Comfort Zone

Another great way to start a little foreplay seduction is to take turns showing affection to your partners. With your own partner, kiss, touch, and caress them. Show them how much you love them and their faith in your relationship.

Then the other couple can do the same. Before you know it, you will all be enjoying each other at the same time.

Now, switch.

Try A Game

There are plenty of ‘dirty’ games out there that you can buy and play together. Try a naughty card game or striptease poker. Not only are these erotic, but they also can relax you into a seductive state.

And add in a lot of sexual innuendo and every ones in the end.

But this is just a sampling of things that you can do as foreplay. Of course, you can come up with your own versions of these appetizing starters.

Or if the heat is just right, you may not make it through them.

When you’re first starting out though, I highly recommend doing something to get the evening started in the erotic tone. Start with the usual conversation and dinner, if you’d like.

Then move to somewhere more comfortable and let the fun begin…